mini-resolution: look ‘em in the eye and listen

by Meagan Francis on January 27, 2012

Hmm?”

This might be the most-used word in my vocabulary, followed closely by “Uh-huh” and “Just a minute.” And almost always aimed at my kids.

I don’t mean to tune my kids out. But sometimes I’m distracted: trying to finish up those last few lines of an important email, edit the blog post I didn’t quite finish before they got off the bus, pay attention to a recipe. Other times I’m simply overwhelmed by the jumbled noise of excited voices tumbling over one another, trying to be the first heard. Tuning out can seem like a coping mechanism, a way to deal with the chaos of family life and competing obligations without losing it. [click to continue…]

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mini-resolution: try something new…for the kids

by Meagan Francis on January 26, 2012

Right now my family is on a “working” vacation at Shanty Creek Resort in northern Michigan. As a travel writer, every so often I have the opportunity to go check out great destinations for stories I’m writing, and locations in our home state of Michigan are my favorite to cover.

But if you knew me, you might think it kind of funny that I’m writing about a ski resort. For one thing, I’m sort of a klutz, and I’m not even close to being a thrill-seeker. I’m the nervous Nellie warning you to slow down, drive more carefully, keep both eyes on the road. I’m the one who stands back at least 10 feet from the ledge, even if there’s a three-foot titanium fence surrounding the perimeter.

And I’ve always insisted that I have no interest in downhill skiing. [click to continue…]

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Calling mom writers!

by Meagan Francis on January 25, 2012

I’m taking a break from my mini-resolutions (because everyone needs a break from self-improvement now and then!) to let you know about a couple of offerings for writers, moms, and especially moms who are writers:

  1. I’m teaching a new series of writing classes [click to continue…]

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mini-resolution: come up with some new dinnertime conversation-starters.

January 24, 2012

Last night as we sat eating mashed potatoes (big win for Mom!) and meatloaf (not so much!) I became aware that my efforts at dinnertime conversation have become, well, stale. Apparently ”What was the best part of school today?” and “How about the worst?” are not as titillating to four growing boys as discussions of botflies [...]

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mini-resolution: update our family calendar

January 23, 2012

With our late winter break followed almost immediately by travel, things have felt a little chaotic around here for the past couple of weeks. I’m still trying to get into the swing of the new year, make sure I know about important upcoming dates, and plan some fun family activities over the coming months too. [...]

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Sunday Reads: Cabin fever, looking for love, Listen To Your Mother, embracing “homemaker”, mom mojo, “mommy wars”

January 22, 2012

I hope you’ve had a relaxing and restful weekend! I took a couple days off from making any resolutions, mini- or otherwise, and mostly just hung out yesterday and so far today. Which meant I got to read some great stuff:

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mini-resolution: put away the last of the holiday decorations

January 20, 2012

After a flurry of post-Christmas un-decorating, I ran out of steam…and the job never got quite finished. Rubbermaid containers sit, waiting to be taken to the basement. Several ornaments I found under the sofa are now sitting on an end table waiting to be dealt with. The faux mistletoe is still hanging in the dining [...]

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